Wednesday, December 27, 2006
Try this when you get sweaty palms.
And anyway you are asking your friend to switch gears from talking about their weekend in the mountains and how exciting it was to your business. It is hard and often perceived as rude.
Ask people, "who do you know who is the next person to move?" Those who have practiced this a few times before saying it have found that it helps your contact narrow the brain-search from the 200 folks that they know to just a few.
They are getting leads.
Let me know how this works for you when you use it.
To your continued success,
Reg Gupton
What Housing Bust?
One of the pull out cards listed 7 additional resources which ranged from a movie, Chinatown, (water battles in southern California), a couple of books, a blog Housing Doom, and a research web site by Torto Wheaton Research.
Check out these valuable resources. What are you using to gain perspective on your market? Let me know. I am very interested.
To your continued success,
Reg Gupton
No more late payments with money in the bank
We had previously discussed how to record expenses and revenue in a way that made it possible to run a profit and loss statement easily, quickly, and frequently. That we had under control.
He mentioned that occasionally he was charged late fees on various credit card accounts when there was plenty of money in the bank to pay them. What to do??
We explored various ideas for having him not impact his credit by having (and paying) late payments.
I suggested a plan that I have used successfully for quite a while. Here it is. Put a repeating to-do in your electronic reminder system (mine is in my Palm) for about the 20th of the month to give you an alarm (reminder) to pay your bills.
I use this reminder to reconcile all credit cards and pay the amount owed. It is easy for me as weekly (every Monday morning) I post all receipts, checks written and income rec'd to Quicken. This takes me about 20-30 minutes.
This is time well spent. Saves your credit rating and eliminates those late fees.
If you don't do something like this, what system to you use to pay your bills? I would love to hear.
To your continued success,
Reg Gupton
Tuesday, December 26, 2006
Google takes the mystery out of Blogs (again)
About Google Reader
Google Reader makes it easier to keep up with your ever-expanding reading list of content from across the web. You can:
- Automatically get the latest news and updates from your favorite sites.
- Sort your reading list based on what's most relevant to you.
- Organize what you read with labels and stars.
- Quickly share interesting items with friends via email or by blogging them, directly from Reader.
I did.
Reg Gupton
The secret way to receive the latest information on your passions.
Ever since I read about Blogging several years ago, I struggled with how to find information written in the Blogging style. I was unwilling to take my time to search out content on topics that were of interest to me. What I wanted was a service hopefully free that would let me know when there were postings to some Blog somewhere on topics of interest me. If you are as busy as I am, I am not going to visit a Blog without knowing if there is new content.
The other day another blogger sent me a request to link to my Blog. I was honored.
I called him to learn how he found me. What was the process? I hoped that it was simple. Was I glad I got in touch with him.
He said that Google has a system called Google Alerts that allows you to specify the topics or words that you wish to learn about on Blogs and other Internet related sources.
Here is what Google has to say about their new system.
Welcome to Google Alerts
Google Alerts are email updates of the latest relevant Google results (web, news, etc.) based on your choice of query or topic.
Some handy uses of Google Alerts include:
- monitoring a developing news story
- keeping current on a competitor or industry
- getting the latest on a celebrity or event
- keeping tabs on your favorite sports teams
Visit www.google.com/alerts to start having too much fun. Let me know if you like this powerful new service as much as I do.
Friday, December 22, 2006
There are more things to negotiate than you think
I wonder if you know of a property for sale for, let's say, $300,000? I wonder if the seller would take $900,000 for it? Before you say anything, listen closely. I will pay $900k for the property but I get to chose the terms. I will pay $1.00 per week for 900,000 weeks.
In most purchases the main and often only focus is on price. Price is only one of the items that you can negotiate.
Jim and Millie are in the motel with the kids, dog and cat. Jim has already started his new job and is working 12 hour days. The money provided by his new company is running out is 10 days. Do you think that they might pay a little more for a piece of property that they can move into in a week? You bet they will.
Here are the 5 things that can be negotiated in the purchase of most anything.
1. Inclusions: What comes with the purchase. I have had numerous clients who walked away from the closing table with little or no cash. If their new (to them) condo was without a stove and refrigerator they would have been cooking on a camp stove and storing food in their cooler. Since the stove and refrigerator were included they were willing to pay a little more since they could finance these necessary items.
2. Contingencies: What must take place before the purchase can be completed? Does your 45 year old dad have to die so you can inherit his money for the down payment?
3. Possession: See Jim and Millie's story above.
4. Terms: See the $900k story above.
5. Price: And last but not least there is price.
Focusing on items other than price takes some practice. But practice this tip so you and your clients can buy and sell more.
To your continued success,
Reg Gupton
Reg Gupton reports another problem with Top Producer 7i
After I faxed the report to my client, I deleted the closing guessing that all the "to-dos" would disappear from my "today's business" as was the case with Top Producer 6i, which I had used for too long.
Guess what? It does not delete items from your calendar after the closing is deleted.
I chatted with tech support on this too. They said that there would be a call from another group in the company to discuss.
Let's raise the heat on them to fix these minor and yet important problems. You can communicate with them at programsuggestions@topproducer.com.
Users will love you. Me too.
To your continued success.
Reg Gupton
Thursday, December 21, 2006
Reg Gupton reports a problem with Top Producer 7i
The other day a REALTOR coaching client asked me to share my closing action plan with her. I was pleased to help her.
I created a closing with her as the seller and myself as the buyer. In order to get the details of the plan to her, I wanted to print a report and then fax it to her. Because some of the action descriptions are long, I attempted to print the "detailed closing report" in landscape mode so there would be more room for the descriptions to be visible to her.
I learned after a difficult call with TOP Producer tech support that it is not possible to do what I want as the program creates a PDF file which can not be modified.
If you are as upset as I am, how about we all send a request to their wish list which is located at programsuggestions@topproducer.com asking for this to be changed? There in power numbers.
Let's all work together to make the program better.
Reg Gupton
Saturday, December 16, 2006
Reg Gupton posts a book review of Think and Grow RIch
by Napoleon Hill
Reviewed by Reg Gupton
The other day a friend and I were talking about progress and getting unstuck. I mentioned that over the years I had received much support and incredible ideas from my Master Mind Group. “What is a MasterMind Group. I’ve never heard of one” my friend said.
I then launched into a story about Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. “Never heard of it” he said. Being a passionate reader, I take time to read all sorts of things. Magazines to articles to mysteries to techno thrillers to business books. I am guilty of assuming that others read the same amount. I know that this is not true and I can dream.
Andrew Carnegie, 1835-1919, the multi-millionaire of the late nineteenth and early twentieth century challenged Napoleon Hill, to study more than two decades and interview more than 500 extremely wealthy men to reveal the source of their riches. He did as challenged. Think and Grow Rich is the result. The book was first published in 1937.
Hill interviewed people like Henry Ford, George Eastman, Charles Schwab, Theodore Roosevelt, William Jennings Bryan, J. Ogden Armour and too many other successful men to list here. They were the wealthiest and most prominent men of the early 20th century.
Quoting from the notes from the author, “…all achievement, all earned riches, have their beginnings in an idea.” Very, very true.
Hill lists 13 principles of success. For example:
desire, the starting point of all achievement,
faith, visualization of, and belief in the attainment of desire,
autosuggestion, the medium for influencing the subconscious mind
and 10 others.
The book characterizes a meeting of minds or better put, "Mastermind Alliance" where many people put their thoughts, ideas, and experiences together to create a synergy and compilation of ideas that benefits each individual. Read Think and Grow Rich to learn more about the Mastermind principle and many other ground breaking ideas that I have found so useful in my life.
While re-reading my copy, dog eared, marked up, I recalled that for years I read this powerful book every year between Christmas and New Years. Every year when I revisited the book I took something new away. The book was the same and I was different.
I have slipped out of the habit over the past several years. It is now in my reminder system to be re-read every year from now on. You should read it too.
You can add this timeless classic to your library here: Think and Grow Rich: The Andrew Carnegie formula for money making
Reg Gupton
Reg Gupton posts a guest book review of Excuse me, Your Life is Waiting
Lynn Grabhorn
Reviewed by Scott Wiseman
In Excuse Me, Your Life Is Waiting the author emphatically states that we attract what we feel, not what we want or don't want, nor tediously plan for, but what we feel about attaining our desires. This is her take on the Laws of Attraction-applying the physical laws of magnetism to personal attainment. Our feelings positive or negative vibrate at high or low frequencies that will attract positive or negative experiences.
Her proof is in anecdotal stories of her own and others experience, rather than scientific fact. For some that may be difficult swallow, as the target of this book seems to be those very individuals that are skeptics or over-analyzers. However, if you are wondering why it might be that the other guy always seems to get the prize or others still are able to obtain indescribable success, this may be the piece to the puzzle you are looking for. She suggests that we get out of fear based thoughts about money, relationships, health and other critical areas of life and train ourselves to feel, what it would be like to live in the abundance of our desires.
There are plenty of ah ha's in this book and the reader will undoubtedly find themselves reviewing experiences in their life, both good and bad, that seemed to manifest themselves out of feelings they were flowing at the time. There seems to be enough proof that these concepts work. Lastly, Grabhorn cautions that changing how we think and feel may not be easy, but it is guaranteed to be life changing. To that end she offers a 30-day plan to kick start you on your way to positive feelings and a life of abundance.
You can add this book to your library here: Excuse Me, Your Life Is Waiting: The Astonishing Power of Feelings
Reg Gupton
Reg Gupton posts a guest book review of the Millionaire Next Door
by Thomas J. Stanley and William D. Danko
Review by Peter Butler
Oh no - not another “Get Rich Quick Book”, mercy!
I originally bought this book in a moment of weakness. I thought it promised juicy tittle-tattle about how overpaid sports stars blow their stash on state-of-the-art toys and fun. The book turned out to be nothing like that. It was far more interesting.
The authors show the value of great offense as well as great defense. Just like football, it is important to have both. Making a high salary (good offense) will not keep you rich unless you have a plan to keep it and build it (good defense). One interesting parameter that can change your life is the measurement of your unemployed survival period. This is a number that is extremely influential on the amount of stress in your life. Imagine that you are fired from your job. How many days, or weeks, or months can you survive before you default on your mortgage payments, your car loan and your credit cards? If the period is measured in days or even weeks you are likely to be a nervous wreck. If the period is a few months, you can be pretty calm. But if you can survive for a few years, you are as cool as a cucumber. It’s one of those ostrich-head-in-the-sand considerations that is not rocket science, but can make a big difference to your life if you put the odds in your own favor. If you feel that striving to get rich is a bit distasteful, think of it more as not being poor, and also not being stressed.
The book is full of observations such as this one. It doesn’t scold or preach but the message soon sinks in. At our house we think it is so useful, that we give copies to close friends, young family members leaving home for the first time, and friends getting married.
So not only does this book help you to get rich slow, it will also reduce your stress. And as an added bonus it gives you the confidence to sneer at drivers of brand new luxury cars while bumping along in your humble jalopy. Ooh delicious.
You can buy the book here: The Millionaire Next Door
Reg Gupton
Friday, December 15, 2006
Reg Gupton's Top 10 tips on the 80/20 rule
by Richard Koch
How would you like to earn 80% of the money that you made last year by working only Mondays. Most of us would be thrilled with that prospect. More time with the family, more time with our other passions.
This way of thinking changed my life. I learned while selling real estate that 80% of my earnings resulted from 20% of my time and efforts. I was able to reduce my work and not have any dramatic reduction in earning. What a joy.
The "Pareto Principle" believes that you get 80 percent of your results from 20 percent of your efforts. This powerful proven strategy is explained in a great way in The 80/20 Principle by Richard Koch. To maximize this 20 percent, use the following tips to give you a competitive edge:
1. Develop a clear idea of what tasks are important so that you can focus on them.
2. Make a to-do list that categorizes each task for the day according to priority: High, Medium, and Low.
Do only the Highs. And maybe the Mediums. Never the low tasks.
3. Ask the other members of your team, associates and family what is important to them.
4. Set several appointments with yourself to respond to voicemail and e-mail.
Don't work on these items until the appointed time slot arrives.
5. You need time to think.
Set a rigid appointment with yourself at least once per week when you can cut your creative side free.
6. Write down your goals.
Have your goals visible to you at all times. They will provide your focus.
7. Clear your work space of all clutter.
8. Plan each month, each week, and each day.
9. Plan each project by going backwards from the deadline.
Break it down to its components, allot reasonable time estimates to each component, and decide how many days ahead you should start the project - and how much time you can devote to it each day.
10. You don't have to do everything yourself.
There are many people out there who can do many tasks for your very inexpensively, freeing you to do the things that you are really good at and that make you the most money.
Add this valuable book to your library: The 80/20 Principle: The Secret to Success by Achieving More with Less, by Richard Koch.
To your continued success,
Reg Gupton
Reg Gupton's Top 10 tips for attending a seminar
To your continued success,
Reg Gupton
Reg Gupton's Top 10 reasons to join a MasterMind Group
In a properly configured MasterMind Group you will be surrounded with positive thinking people who are strong, independent, and focused. One of the principles that Hill discovered in his research was that people achieve great success in life through collaboration and alliances with others.
You will be the same person in the future that you are today except for the people you associate with and the books you read and the audio programs you listen to.
1. All of us are smarter than any one of us.
2. You will be nurtured in the MasterMind Group environment as the members encourage and support you and what you do.
3. You will have an opportunity to share something positive that has happened since the last meeting.
Many times we have limited chances to tell someone who really cares about a success that we have had in our personal or business lives.
4. We all need an accountability structure in our lives so we can achieve greater progress and more successes.
5. The environment fosters intimate, honest relating. In this safe place there is nothing that is too silly or small that the others will not care to hear.
6. You can brainstorm solutions to your problems and struggles so that you can multiply the number of available ideas that you have to work with.
7. You will have complete access to a repertoire of resources and ideas by associating with the
wisdom of the group.
8. You will have the chance to cleanse your spirit as you get things off your chest (so they can be left behind and you can move on).
9. You will experience the principle of giving and getting.
10. Everyone comes to the meeting with something to contribute and expects to take something good away from the meeting.
To your continued success,
Reg Gupton
Reg Gupton's Top 10 lessons from cycling
1. If you can ride 10 miles, you can ride 20. If you can ride 20 you can ride 30.
Get started, do what you think you can do. Then rest briefly to marshal your energy, focus and intention. And begin again.
Don't quit. You can do much more than you ever thought, much, much more.
2. Give it every thing you have, then take a break.
Many, many days when riding, I have been convinced that I could ride no further. Not true. If I stop for even 10 minutes I learned that I could ride another hour or so. Breaks are a good thing.
3. Every equipment upgrade enhances the riding experience.
I read magazines and on-line newsletters about the latest and greatest cycling equipment breakthroughs. And I wait a while to make the next investment in new equipment. Upgrades are a good thing, just not on the bleeding edge.
Plan and budget for appropriate equipment purchases. Don't get the latest and greatest. Just move up and continue to educate yourself with what is going on with the equipment necessary to make your work more fun and productive. Upgrade to broadband (spend less time on line), upgrade your computers (spend less time watching the hard drive spin) and upgrade your skills (get or keep your job)
4. Keep learning from those that are better than you.
Lance Armstrong revolutionized the sport of competitive cycling. Along the way he won the Tour de France 7 times. His contributions include year round training, riding the difficult stages ahead of time (let's call that practice), hiring a coach, focus on winning only one event a year (the Tour), massive upgrades to the equipment, attention to detail, and understanding the difference between strength (low pedal cadence) and aerobic capability (fast pedal cadence).
5. Keep your equipment clean and in good repair.
A recent conversation with a friend of mine who has been off his bike for a while (too long) convinced me that something as simple as washing your bike can re-kindle the spirit.
A coaching client recently told me that cleaning her 180 (removing the clutter that she can see while sitting at her desk had the same result) She feels energized for hours if not days after this little exercise.
Just don't look on the floor under or behind her desk.
6. Ride with your friends.
A lot of my early cycling was done alone in training for the MS-150 described below. Feeling the wind in my face and the rhythmic movement was kind of hypnotic.
After a while these rides ended up boring, just like working alone. Find an individual or group that you can speak with about your work. Create or join a Mastermind Group, form a group that will meet and discuss the latest books or articles that have a bearing on your work and life.
I now ride with a group 2-3 times per week. We have created some great friendships. The miles just roll along and the hills are not so painful.
Learn from others mistakes and successes. You don't have to make every mistake yourself. It is painful and time consuming.
7. Get warmed up.
Stretch, get the Cardio Vascular system opened up. These days it takes me about 30-45 minutes to get the body ready to ride.
Consider that your brain and creative processes could use some warm up too. Consider listening to educational tapes/CDs on the way to and from work. Not talk radio. Talk radio will not help you move your life and/or career forward.
8. Look up the road
Not always at your wheel (or feet) or at the task at hand. That is where the sights are. Too many times to count, while cycling on two lane country road in Boulder County, Colorado, there are raptors on top of power poles and in the large trees beside the road. If you look up, you will see wild things.
You will gain perspective and a clearer vision of what is ahead. A bigger picture too.
9. Learn to play well with cars.
Where I ride, Boulder County CO, cyclists and drivers have worked out an uneasy truce (most days) On many of the more popular routes the city/county/state have painted bike lanes, posted Share the Road signs and done numerous betterments to allow cyclists to safely enjoy the beautiful cycling that is here. Sometimes when riding (and driving) I notice cyclists abusing their size and maneuverability. This antagonizes drivers and rightly so. Remember, cars are bigger than bikes.
Taking on the your biggest competitor head on, can be suicidal. Carve out a niche that is under served. More opportunity, more profits.
10. Learn the rules on the game.
My first longer rides were on MS-150s. These are benefit rides for the MS Society.
On the first ride that I attempted to complete (no, it took three attempts to finish my first one) I was surprised to hear people who I did not know, saying to me as they passed, "on your left" to let me know that I was being overtaken, while complete strangers pointed out road hazards that they saw first.
Every sport, business, industry, and company has traditions and culture that are important to understand. At least when you violate them, you are aware. Awareness is very, very useful.
Reg Gupton's Top 10 reasons to market with color postcards
Print media salespeople will tell you that it pays to advertise-that you must spend money to make money. What they don't tell you is that advertising does not equal marketing. There are many other ways to market your product or service.
I've found a way around this dilemma by using color postcards. They have been an essential part of my marketing toolkit for years
Experts say that if a marketing effort is to be successful, it must be repeated. You will get results from your targeted postcards if you repeatedly send to the same audience.
Continue advertising in the paper, but only if it has worked for you in the past. Measure your responses. If you are not getting the sales/calls that you want, stop.
1. Even for the smallest of businesses can afford postcard mailing.
If you have as few as 100 customers/prospects in a database you can afford to send a targeted color postcard.
2. You can make a sneak attack.
Your competition will know if you're advertising in the newspapers/magazines! It will take them longer to find out with direct mail postcards.
3. It's easy to track your results.
Your card can tell recipients to bring the card into your place of business for a special discount or call for a free (value added) report. Further you can direct them to use a special code when they place an order on your web site.
4. Postcards are versatile.
In a single mailing, you can seek business from prospective customers, and solicit repeat business from existing customers.
5. Postcards can establish and support your brand.
When you use a systematic, direct mail postcard program, you and your business will become familiar to your target audience.
6. No more wasted marketing campaign money.
Send your proposed/test card to a small sample of your database. Measure the response. If you are pleased with the response, mail to the rest of the target audience. If not, change one thing and test again.
7. Postcards are read quickly.
You have only 6-8 seconds with the reader of your mail. That is enough with a postcard.
8. Postcards don't take up a lot of space.
If appropriate, they can be easily carried around until the time to redeem them for your great offer.
9. Postcards are easy and inexpensive.
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10. Postcards are fast and simple.
You can create/use a template so that the majority of the card stays the same (for great branding) and just change your offer.
To your continued success,
Reg Gupton
Reg Gupton's Top 10 reasons to stay in touch with past clients
1. You would like them to buy from you again.
2. You would like them to give you a testimonial.
3. You would like them to send you their friends as customers through referrals.
4. You would like them to be brutally frank and rate your customer service delivery system.
5. You would like them to honestly and candidly evaluate your product or service.
6. You would like to learn the many ways that your customers use your product or service.
7. You would like them to give you ideas on ways to improve your product or service
8. You would like them to talk to a prospective customer who has asked to talk with a current customer.
9. You would like to develop a friendly relationship with them so that they are comfortable discussing problems with you.
10. You would like them to buy more frequently from you.
To your continued success,
Reg Gupton
Reg Gupton's Top 10 reasons to delegate
I received the following the other day and was reminded why I do delegate and why it is critical to an individual's success in business.
that the objectives of the responsibilities are clear and agreed-to in order to maximize buy-in.
Reg Gupton's Top 10 Interview Questions
She told me to find a class in this subject and sign-up and take it. That I did. One of the most important things that came out of this class is the list of questions that follows. I have used them ever since. They have served me well in hiring at all levels. From Controllers and other senior level people to Professional Assistants in my real estate career and every level in between.
Use them well. Oh, there are 11 questions. You get a bonus. If you don't do the hiring for your organization, forward these important tools on to the person that does.
1. Describe to me a great day on a previous job.
You are looking for the things that they truly feel good about.
2. Describe to me a terrible day on a previous job.
Look for the things that drive them crazy. Are they the things you love to do?
3. Why are you interviewing for a new job now?
You need to learn their history
4. What are your expectations from this job?
Do theirs match yours?
5. One year from now, what do you expect to be earning?
Does what they are willing to earn match what you can pay?
6. What other requirements do you have on your time?
This is very important. You need to understand their true time requirements for their outside life.
7. Please share with me two of your past successes. What did you learn?
You need to know what rings their bell and what kind of things excite them.
8. Two of your past failures? What did you learn?
How do they talk about them and specifically what did they do about the failure(s)?
9. What are a few of your strengths?
Do their strengths compliment your needs? There is a significant tendency to hire people just like ourselves.
10. What two areas in your life would you like to improve upon?
Have they thought about this or are they complacent about where they are?
11. Tell me about the best and worst boss you ever had.
Are you like either of these? You would be better to find out now rather than later. You need to know what the traits are that are important to the candidate.
To your continued success,
Reg Gupton
Reg Gupton's Top 10 E mail etiquette tips
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Tuesday, December 12, 2006
Reg Gupton's top 10 reasons to hire a coach
Reg Gupton
Friday, December 08, 2006
Draw a T
At the beginning of the class I had them turn their handout over to the back blank page. I then taught them a technique that I have both used and taught for years and years to get more out of any seminar or workshop you attend.
Here it is. Draw a line vertically down the middle of the page from the top to the bottom. Then on the left side at the top write "to-do", on the right side write "ah-ha." You can spell ah-ha any way you like.
Then write your action items on the left and on the right side write down the items that are an explanation of why something is or how it work, as if a light bulb goes on in your head. I like to say those epiphanous moments.
For me seminars are about learning and action. Using this tool, you can easily record your action items and the most important things you learned in one convenient place.
At the end of the program, you can if you like, throw away the workbook and save only your to-do/ah ha page. I have a file in by desk drawer labeled "Conference Notes." And have done away with what I call my intelligent bookshelf. You know, those workbooks that you are going to pull out and use some time, which never comes.
Reg Gupton
Wednesday, December 06, 2006
The 3-D desk cleaning plan
Try this for one hour every two weeks. Do it, Delegate it or Dump it. Pick up each piece of paper and apply the 3-D plan.
Once your workspace is clean, use the 3-D plan every day with every piece of paper that crosses your desk,
BTW...put the reminder to use the 3-D plan in your automated reminder system as a to-do.
You will love it. I do.
To your continued success.
Reg Gupton
Friday, December 01, 2006
Work with anyone who is younger than you are?
Digital Natives invade the workplace.
This online article is a MUST READ for employers (managers and HR), 'mature' workers, the younger workers it describes (to help them understand our perspective), and PARENTS (to help us understand our kids' world).
Go directly to the full article at Pew Research Center, to understand what they are thinking and how they will impact your world.
What the heck is Systematic Spontaneity?
Do you have a database with email addresses? I do.
A REALTOR friend of mine periodically sends me information that he finds interesting. It could be an article, some stats on the local market or a question. For example he purchased a new home not long ago. Using the transition as a excuse, he thought he would get all his telecommunication services under one carrier (if that made sense). He sent an email message that was no longer than 2-3 paragraphs to his database. He surprised himself by receiving 44 responses.
He achieved two important goals. First, he rec’d some valuable input on his dilemma. Second, he touched his prospects quickly and easily. Remember, no contact-no relationship, no relationship-no contact. Some of the folks who replied just wanted to vent. Others gave him very valuable insights into his disbursed telecommunication services problem.
While on a coaching call the other day, I coined a phrase based on having ideas and a database. If you have both of these, you can employ Systematic Spontaneity.
My REALTOR friend frequently sends messages (using primarily email) to his prospects having no plan and with no reason other than to touch them.
He receives very positive feedback, in writing, on the phone and in person.
Try it and let me know how it works.
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